This is super embarrassing, but for some reason...I haven't been able to get hard lately. don't know if it's stress from school, sports or just life in general, but whatever it is...it's really messing with my mojo. It's important to me that I am able to perform when needed! don't want to get a rep around school that my junk doesn't work. e last couple of times that I tried to have sex with my girlfriend, it just didn't want to work. Luckily both times we were drinking at a party, so I was able to blame it on the alcohol. t truth be told, even just trying to jerk off at home...it's been a bit weak.