"I fantasized a lot when I was in my first marriage," said Gigi Dior, a 41-year-old divorcee and mom who was born in Chicago and now lives in New Jersey. "That was a sexless marriage and I wanted more. I would see a handsome guy in a grocery store walk by and wonder what kind of underwear he had on. I would imagine how he would feel pushing into me for the first time. I don't fantasize as much these days because I am more vocal."